Why You Should Be Selfish With Your Energy In Your 20s

Your 20s are your best years. 

This is the time when you will make mistakes, sometimes the same mistake, hundreds of times before you learn your lesson. You will be put in situations that will not only test your faith, but the commitment that you have to yourself as a person.

Your 20s are your best years.

When you can do the most craziest things without being judged, but still understand that eventually you will have to get it together. The need for instant gratification and FOMO (fear of missing out) will be at an all-time high and you will try to balance fun with work, even if you show one more attention than the other.

Like I said, the 20s are your best years.

In that journey of finding your "why" or "what", which ultimately dictates your purpose in life, surrounding yourself around the right people also play a large part in that search for your purpose. The people you surround yourself around now, will play a part in where you end up in the next few days, months and sometimes even years.

This exact reason is why you have to very selfish with your energy and who you choose to share it with.

Unconsciously, we are inspired by mannerisms and intellect, without even knowing it. So while we surround ourselves around people who might be a good time, the question existing, is are they actually able to elevate our lives?

If someone is able to elevate our lives, that means that they have the power to push us beyond our personal capabilities which will eventually affect our mannerisms and intellect in a positive way.

You will find yourself doing things you've never done or focusing more on your purpose rather the good time, or you will even learn how to use the good time to find your purpose.

Your 20s is not only your time to make mistakes, but to prepare yourself for the rest of your life.

Surround yourself around confident people that are sure of themselves and what they want out of life.

Surround yourself around people that understand the art of a good time, but know the work comes before play.

Surround yourself around people that appreciate what you bring to the table, while pushing you to bring more by creating opportunities for yourself.

To get the most out of life, energy is key.

Whether you are sharing your energy with a partner or friends, understanding this one aspect of life, will help turn your thoughts into things.

So live in your 20s, make mistakes and create memories for yourself. But as you progress into your years, cut out the people that don't push you to be better or bring you down, and replace them with people that do.

You create your future, there's no excuses. 




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